Sex Consultation / Sexual Health

1. Sex Consultation

Everyone has more or less concerns about sex, the difference lies on the level of impact. Regardless of the degree of severity, you can do preliminary consultation and evaluation first.
(Please refer to FAQs for appointment and consultation fee.)

每個人或多或少都有性的疑慮,差別在於影響的程度,無論程度的輕重皆可先做初步的諮詢與評估。
(如何預約與諮詢費用,請參考常見問題。)

  1. Sexual Concerns:
    (1) ) An individual’s concerns about one’s or partner’s sexual organs, sexual concepts, sexual attitudes and sexual behaviors, which in turn affect the sexual satisfaction of oneself or the other.
    個人對於自己或是伴侶在性器官、對性的觀念、性的態度及性行為等的疑慮,進而影響到自己或是對方的性滿意度。

    (2) Sexual concerns affected by social groups: Sexual myths, sexual hand-ups
    社會群體所影響的性疑慮:性迷思(Sexual Myths)、性執著(Sexual hand-ups)

  2. Sexual Distress:
    (1) Distress caused by sexual physiology 性生理所引起的困擾
    (2) Distress caused by sexual psychology 性心理所引起的困擾
    (3) Distress caused by sexual desire. For example a spouse, the husband expects sexual behavior at least once a day but the wife only wants to have sex once every two weeks, neither of them belongs to sexual dysfunction despite of their sexual desire. However, their gap in sex life is relatively large and will ultimately ended up with sexual disharmony.
    性慾望所引起的困擾:假設一對伴侶,老公期望每天至少一次的性行為;而老婆只想要兩個星期一次即可,兩人對於性慾的需求多寡皆不屬於性功能障礙。但兩人性生活差距頗大,即會變為性慾不協調的困擾。
    (4) Distress caused by relationships 關係所引起的困擾

  3. Sexual Dysfunctions
    When a man or woman cannot perform sexual intercourse (penis enters vagina) due to the function of “sexual reproductive organs”, it is called sexual dysfunction, which further affects fertility, emotions, relationships, sexual life and others. Please refer to male sexual dysfunction/ female sexual dysfunction for details.
    男性或女性因為「性生殖器官」的功能而無法完成性交(陰莖進入陰道)的情況,即被稱為性功能障礙,進階影響生育、情緒、關係與性生活等面像。詳細請參考男性性功能困擾 / 女性性功能困擾

2. Sexual Health

  1. Body image: Sex covers both physiology and psychology, so the degree of satisfaction with your body’s image will affect self-confidence and extend to sexual behavior and interaction with your partner. Therefore, a positive behavioral response to your body image is also an essential element of sexual health.
    身體心像:
    性涵蓋了生理、心理,因此對於自己身體的形象的滿意程度,會影響自信心,更延伸到與伴侶之間的性行為與互動。因此對於自我身體心像擁有正向的行為反應亦是性健康不可或缺的要素。

    (1) Definition: Translated from body image, is a dynamic development process, which will have different definitions and attitudes due to different people, times and places. (Norris, 1970)
    定義:翻譯自body image,是一個動態的發展過程,會因人、時、地的不同,而有不同的定義與態度。(Norris,1970)

    (2) Composition:
    The actual body (the existing body), the ideal body (the desired body image in your mind), and the presented body (the appearance of the existing body in the external environment), in addition to the body, it also includes social roles and relationships.
    組成:
    現實的身體(目前存在的身體)、理想的身體(心目中所期望的身體形象)、呈現的身體(現存的身體對外在環境所表現出來的樣子,除了身體外也包含了社會角色及人際關係)。

    (3) Aspects of concern:
    Body function (physical activity, function), body feeling (feeling or impression of the body), body structure (anatomical image), and social function (social behaviors that the body can engage in). The above four will influence each other.
    關注的面向:
    身體的功能(身體活動、功能)、身體感覺(對身體的感受或印象)、身體結構(解剖形象)及社會功能(使身體所能從事的社會性行為),上述四者會相互響。

    (4) Behavioral response of body image:

    Positive behavior: Agree, accept, joy, satisfied, approval …
    Negative behavior: Denial, reject, dissatisfied, disappointed, oppose and other negative, unconstructive, and ideas for improvement.
    身體心像的行為反應:
    正向行為:認同、接受、歡喜、滿意、贊成……
    負向行為:否認、拒絕、不滿、失望、反對等消極、無建設性及尚待改進的觀點。

  2. Know your lust 認識自己的情慾

  3. Sexual healthcare 性的保健